Bombay High Court
MRS. HETAL SHARAD PARMARversusMR. SHARAD DHIRAJLAL PARMAR
- Decided
- Disposal
- Disposed Off
Holding
The appeal is dismissed; the ex parte decree of dissolution of marriage stands.
Summary
The appellant, Hetal Parmar, appealed an ex parte decree of dissolution of marriage granted by the Family Court under Section 13(1)(i-a) and (i-b) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955, on grounds of desertion and cruelty. She claimed she was unable to defend the petition because her advocate failed to file a written statement, invoking the Supreme Court's principle that a litigant should not suffer due to counsel's negligence. The respondent contended that the appellant was fully aware of the divorce proceedings, had voluntarily left the matrimonial home in March 2020, and repeatedly pursued domestic violence relief, thereby demonstrating an intention to desert. The court examined the evidence, noting that the appellant admitted deserting the husband, did not seek resumption of cohabitation, and failed to appear or file a statement in the divorce case. Relying on the oral evidence and documentary proof, the court held that the desertion was established and the appellant’s claim of advocate negligence was untenable. Consequently, the appeal was dismissed and the decree of divorce upheld.
Issues considered
- Whether the ex parte decree of dissolution of marriage should be set aside on the ground of the appellant's advocate's negligence.
- Whether the appellant deserted the husband for a continuous period of not less than two years as required under Section 13(1)(i-b) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955.
- Whether the appellant's conduct indicates an intention to resume cohabitation, thereby negating desertion.
- Whether the appellant is entitled to relief despite having pursued separate domestic violence proceedings.
Legislation cited
- Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 — s. 13(1)(i-a), 13(1)(i-b)
- Indian Penal Code, 1860 — s. 323, 406, 498-A
- Protection of Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005
Subjects
- desertion
- cruelty
- ex parte decree
- Hindu Marriage Act
- domestic violence
- advocate negligence
- constructive desertion
- resumption of cohabitation
Judgment
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IN THE HIGH COURT OF JUDICATURE AT BOMBAY
CIVIL APPELLATE JURISDICTION
FAMILY COURT APPEAL (STAMP) NO. 35573 OF 2024
WITH
INTERIM APPLICATION NO. 1461 OF 2026
Mrs. Hetal Sharad Parmar
Aged : 30 years,
Occu.: Housewife,
Residing at : 203, 2nd Floor,
Mahavir Dham Building …Appellant/Applicant
Devidayal Road, Mulund (West),
Maharashtra, Mumbai 400 080.
Versus
Mr. Sharad Dhirajlal Parmar,
Age : 31 years, Occu.: Business,
R/at. Flat No. - 202, Tridev Tower,
Bhakti Marg, Mulund (West),
Mumbai 400 080, …Respondent
Maharashtra, India.
Mr. J.G. Sharma, Advocate for the Appellant/Applicant.
Mr. Vikas G. Saindane, Advocate for the Respondent.
CORAM: BHARATI DANGRE &
MANJUSHA DESHPANDE, JJ.
DATED: 17th JULY 2026.
JUDGMENT (Per : Manjusha Deshpande, J.) :-
1. The Appellant wife being aggrieved by the ex-parte
RAJESHRI decree of dissolution of marriage passed by the learned
PRAKASH
AHER
Digitally signed by
RAJESHRI PRAKASH
AHER
Date: 2026.08.04
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19:06:47 +0530
04.08.2026.
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Judge of the Family Court Bandra, Mumbai, in Petition No. A-
428 of 2023, under Section 13(1)(i-a) and (i-b) of the Hindu
Marriage Act, 1955, on the ground of desertion and cruelty
has assailed it in the present Appeal.
2. The marriage between Appellant and Respondent was
solemnized as per Hindu rites on 07.05.2017, which was an
arranged marriage. On account of her mother's kidney
related ailment, the Appellant was frequently required to
attend her mother and accompany her for dialysis thrice a
week, of which the Respondent-husband was aware. Even
though the Respondent had agreed to this arrangement,
eventually, when she joined him at the matrimonial home,
she was asked by the Respondent to abide by the family’s
culture and follow the unwritten rules of the family. She was
taunted by the members of his family, for not bringing
sufGcient dowry. There used to be frequent quarrels at her
matrimonial home. She was also abused by the family
members of the Respondent-husband without any reason.
Fed up with the treatment meted out to her by the
Respondent-husband and his family, she lodged complaint in
the police station.
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3. The Appellant has Gled FIR No. 470 of 2022 on
05.07.2022 against the Respondent-husband and his family
members; a Domestic Violence Complaint (‘DV Complaint’, for
short) against the Respondent and his family on 24.11.2020;
an FIR on 05.07.2022 under Sections 498-A, 406 and 323 of
the Indian Penal Code (‘IPC’ for short); there are other
ancillary proceedings arising out of these complaints that are
pending between the parties.
4. The learned Advocate for the Appellant submits that
during the pendency of all the aforementioned proceedings,
the Family Court allowed the petition for dissolution of
marriage Gled by the Respondent-husband ex parte on the
ground of desertion.
It is submitted that the Appellant-wife did not get an
opportunity to defend the Hindu Marriage Petition, since she
had completely relied upon her Advocate on record.
According to the Appellant, she did not receive any response
from her Advocate whenever she enquired about the status
of the Hindu Marriage Petition pending before the Family
Court. Whenever she contacted the Advocate on record
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regarding the said proceedings, she did not receive
appropriate response from the Advocate. It is submitted that,
in fact, she intended to contest the dissolution of marriage on
merits, as she has strong grounds to oppose the same. It is
further submitted that it was due to the sheer mistake of the
Advocate, that the written statement could not be Gled before
the Family Court, as a result of which the petition for
dissolution of marriage is allowed ex parte.
5. In support of her submissions that the litigant should
not suffer due to the mistake of his Advocate, the learned
advocate for the Appellant has relied on the judgment of the
Hon’ble Supreme Court in RafGq and Another v. Munshilal
and another1 where the Hon’ble Supreme Court has held that
for whatever reason the advocate might have absented
himself from the Court, the innocent litigant should not be
allowed to suffer injustice, for the fault of his advocate.
6. The learned Advocate submits that the Judge of the
Family Court has observed in the judgment that the
Appellant-wife has deserted the Respondent-husband since
25.03.2020, however, the fact remains that the Respondent
1 AIR 1981 SC 1400
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himself has averred in the written statement Gled in the DV
proceedings in DV/53/2020 that the Appellant left the
matrimonial home in August 2020. Thus, in view of the
aforementioned observation, it is submitted that if the
ex parte order is not set aside, the Appellant would be
deprived of the valuable right to oppose, which would cause
grave injustice to the Appellant, and her other litigation is
likely to be affected because of the impugned order.
7. On the contrary the learned Advocate Mr. Vikas
Saindane, appearing for the Respondent-husband submitted
that the present Appeal has been Gled by the Appellant with
an intention to deprive the Respondent-husband the beneGt
of the judgment and decree dated 19.06.2024. Had there
been any intention on her part to resume cohabitation, she
would have deGnitely returned back and wouldn't have Gled
proceedings such as complaint under the Protection of
Women from Domestic Violence Act, 2005 (“DV Act”, for
short) and the FIR under Section 498-A of the Indian Penal
Code. It is submitted that the reason given by the Appellant
for her failure to cause appearance in the Hindu Marriage
Petition is that, her advocate did not keep tab on the matter
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on the dates of the hearing in the divorce proceeding.
Therefore, due to negligence of the advocate and the
surrounding circumstances, she was unable to participate in
the said proceeding. This stand of the Appellant is patently
false, as all the while she had participated in the Court
proceeding concerning maintenance under the DV Act i.e.
DV/53/2020. The Appellant-wife was regularly attending the
dates in the aforesaid proceeding. She was very much aware
about the pending divorce proceedings, which can be
gathered from her own admission made in the cross-
examination in the D.V. Case No.DV/53/2020. In fact, the
Appellant-wife had caused appearance before the Family
Court in the Marriage Petition No. A/428/2023 along with
her advocate and also attended the meeting before the
marriage counselor.
It is submitted that, the matter before the marriage
counselor could not be settled because of the enormous
demand of alimony made by the Appellant-wife. Thereafter,
she had stopped attending the divorce proceeding and
continued to attend the hearings in the DV case, which was
giving her maintenance regularly.
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It is urged that, the Appellant is trying to take
advantage of her own wrong by resorting the falsities and
illegalities by suppressing the facts before this Court. She
herself has admitted that, she left her matrimonial home in
March 2020. In her cross-examination in the DV case, she
has admitted that, she had only once visited the house of
Respondent-husband in August 2020, to take possession of
her gold ornaments and belongings. It is also admitted in her
cross-examination that, she did receive the notice issued by
the Respondent-husband for restitution of conjugal rights
through his advocate on 15.01.2021.
Thus, in view of the aforementioned background, the
period of 2 years was already over when the Hindu Marriage
Petition No.A/428/2023 was Gled by the Respondent on
13.02.2023. The Appellant had been served with the
summons long before and had due knowledge of the Divorce
Petition No. A/428/2023, which was pending before the
Family Court. It is therefore prayed that the Appellant
cannot be allowed to take advantage of her own wrong by
granting her prayer in the Appeal, since it is evident that the
Appellant is not interested in resumption of cohabitation, but
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interested in protracting the litigation so as to harass the
Respondent. It is therefore prayed that, the Appeal of the
Appellant deserves to be dismissed.
8. We have heard the respective counsel and also perused
the documents placed on record. From the perusal of the
impugned judgment dated 19.09.2024, it is evident that the
Petition for dissolution of marriage has been Gled under
Section 13(1)(i-a) and (i-b) of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955.
So far as the Grst ground of dissolution of marriage
invoked by the Respondent on the ground of cruelty as per
Section 13(1)(i-a) is concerned, the learned Judge while
declining the prayer on that, ground has observed that the
Petitioner has failed to prove that the Appellant has
subjected him to cruelty as alleged. So far as the other
ground i.e. Section 13(1)(i-b) for desertion invoked by the
Respondent-husband is concerned, the learned Judge of the
Family Court, has held that the Appellant-wife has left the
company of the Respondent-husband on 25.03.2020, without
any reasonable cause, and the Respondent has examined
himself and stated about the efforts made by him for
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reconciliation. He has also supported his testimony by
placing on record the police reports and complaints Gled
against him by his wife and also the legal notice issued by
him for resumption of cohabitation. Inspite of the notice
issued to her, the Appellant-wife has neither resumed
cohabitation nor given any response to the notice.
9. In her cross-examination in DV Case No.DV/53/2020,
she has admitted that, she has not Gled any application for
resumption of cohabitation against the Respondent-husband,
nor did she Gle any application for judicial separation. She
admitted that she has Gled one case against the Respondent-
husband at Mulund Police Station, Mumbai. She has also
admitted in her cross-examination that she did receive a
notice from Family Court, Bandra, in which she appeared
through her advocate and participated in the counseling on
one occasion. She further admitted that she didn't Gle any
written statement before the Family Court, Bandra. Thus,
from the cross-examination of the Appellant in the D.V.
Proceedings, which is annexed to the reply by the
Respondent, it can be gathered that the Appellant after
leaving her matrimonial home on 25.03.2020 had only once
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visited her matrimonial home to collect her Stridhan. She
also admitted that she has received a notice for restitution of
conjugal rights, however, she was not interested in
resumption of cohabitation due to the alleged ill-treatment.
10. It can be gathered from the cross-examination of the
Appellant that she was very much aware about the pending
divorce proceeding. However, she has not shown any interest
and diligence to attend the dates in the proceedings for
divorce. On the other hand, she was regularly attending the
dates in the DV proceedings, where she was successful in
obtaining an order of maintenance of Rs.20,000/- per month.
The marriage between the parties has been dissolved by
invoking Section 13 (1) (i-b) of the Hindu Marriage Act,
1955, which reads thus :
“13. Divorce. -- (1) Any marriage solemnized, whether
before or after the commencement of this Act, may, on a
petition presented by either the husband or the wife, be
dissolved by a decree of divorce on the ground that the
other party--
[(i) has, after the solemnization of the marriage, had
voluntary sexual intercourse with any person other than
his or her spouse; or
(i-a) …..
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(i-b) has deserted the petitioner for a continuous period
of not less than two years immediately preceding the
presentation of the petition; or”
11. In the present case, the Respondent-husband has made
an averment in the Petition itself that, the Appellant has
deserted him on 25.03.2020, and the petition for dissolution
of marriage is presented on 13.02.2023. Section 13(1) (i-b)
contemplates that there should be desertion by the Appellant
for a continuous period of not less than two years. In the
present case, it is more than two years after the date on
which the Appellant-wife has left her matrimonial home in
August 2020 with an intention of never returning back. Her
intention can very well be gathered from the date on which
she Gled the DV case i.e. 24.11.2020, wherein she had made
allegations of domestic violence against the Respondent-
husband. She has also admitted of having received the notice
for restitution of conjugal rights issued by the Respondent-
husband on 15.01.2021.
12. Thus, in view of refusal of the Appellant to resume
cohabitation, having failed to respond to the notice issued by
the Respondent, and also considering that she has left her
matrimonial home on her own free will, in August 2020 the
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learned Judge of the Family Court has held that the
Respondent-husband has established the case of constructive
desertion. The oral evidence led by the Respondent has gone
unchallenged. In view of the deposition of Respondent-
husband about the date of desertion and the efforts made by
him for reconciliation, coupled with the other documents
placed on record, which are proved by him, the learned
Judge has rightly held that the Respondent has established
by way of unrebutted oral evidence that there is willful
desertion at the hands of his wife for more than 2 years, till
the date of Gling of the Petition, and has accordingly
answered the Point No.2 in afGrmative and accordingly the
marriage solemnized between the parties has been dissolved.
13. Since the evidence led by the Respondent has gone
unchallenged, and it is also supported by producing evidence
in support of the claim of the desertion. It is also observed by
the learned Judge of the Family Court that, inspite of service
of summons, the Appellant has failed to lead any evidence,
that itself fortiGes the reluctance of the Appellant to resume
cohabitation. It is also observed that, though the Appellant-
wife appeared before the marriage counselor, she has failed
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to appear and Gle her written statement on the subsequent
dates in the proceedings for dissolution of marriage. This
conduct of the Appellant itself supports the observations of
the learned Judge that the Appellant-wife does not appear to
be interested in resumption of cohabitation and the
Respondent-husband herein has clearly proved the ground of
desertion though he has failed to prove the ground of cruelty.
14. We do not Gnd any inGrmity in view of the conduct of
the Appellant-wife, which clearly reMects that though she was
simultaneously pursuing the proceedings Gled by her under
the DV Act, diligently, she has intentionally avoided to attend
the matrimonial proceedings. Thus, she cannot take beneGt
of her own wrong by contending that, due to negligence of her
Advocate, she could not remain present in the proceedings.
As such the challenge in the Appeal fails and the Appeal Gled
by the Appellant stands dismissed.
15. In view of the dismissal of the Family Court Appeal,
stay to the impugned judgment granted earlier stands
vacated.
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16. In view of dismissal of Family Court Appeal, Interim
Application stands disposed of.
(MANJUSHA DESHPANDE, J.) (BHARATI DANGRE, J.)
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