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Supreme Court of India

GAURAV NAGPALversusSUMEDHA NAGPAL

Citation
2008 INSC 1324
Decided
19 November 2008
Disposal
Dismissed

Holding

The welfare of the child is the paramount consideration, leading to custody being granted to the mother with modified visitation rights for the father, and the contempt conviction upheld with the sentence restricted to time already served.

Summary

The father, Gaurav Nagpal, had retained custody of his minor child after allegedly kidnapping and confining the mother, Sumedha Nagpal, and repeatedly violating court orders. The mother filed an application under Section 6 of the Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act, 1956 and Section 25 of the Guardians and Wards Act, 1890 seeking custody, while the father argued his natural guardianship and financial ability. The Supreme Court examined the statutory framework and held that the child's welfare, including moral, ethical and emotional aspects, is the paramount consideration, outweighing the father's statutory rights. It found that the father had flouted multiple orders, poisoned the child's mind against the mother, and therefore could not benefit from his own misconduct. Consequently, custody was awarded to the mother with a modified visitation schedule for the father, and the contempt conviction was upheld but the sentence was limited to the period already served. The appeal was dismissed.

Issues considered

  • Whether the welfare of the child supersedes the statutory rights of the natural guardian under the Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act, 1956.
  • Whether the father can be denied custody despite being the natural guardian due to contempt of court and adverse impact on the child's welfare.
  • Whether visitation rights of the father should be modified in light of the child's best interests.
  • Whether the conviction for contempt of court should be upheld and the sentence limited.

Legislation cited

Subjects

custody of minorwelfare of childHindu Minority and Guardianship ActGuardians and Wards Actcontempt of courthabeas corpusvisitation rightsparental rights

Judgment

                       [2008] 16 S.C.R. 396


A                       GAURAV NAGPAL
                                 II.                                +----   .__

                        SUMEDHA NAGPAL                                      ~



                (Civil Appeal No.5099 of 2007 etc.)

B                     NOVEMBER 19, 2008

        [DR. ARIJIT PASAYAT AND G.S. SINGHVI, JJ.]
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       Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act, 1956 I Guardians
c and   Wards Act, 1890 - ss. 6 and 131 ss. 8, 17 and 25 -
  Custody of minor child - Criteria for consideration of - Held:
  For determining as to who should be given custody of the
  minor child, paramount consideration is welfare of the child
  and not rights of parents under a statute - Word 'welfare'
  used in s. 13 has to be construed literally and to be taken in
D widest sense - Apart from physical welfare, Court should
  take into consideration moral and ethical welfare of the child
  as well - Grant of custody of the minor child in the instant
  case by courts below is justified - Long stay of the child with
  the father is no ground to deny custody to the mother, as the
E father retained the custody by flouting various orders of the
  Court - However, terms of visitation rights of father modified
  - Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 - s. 26.

       Contempt of Court - Right to visit the child granted to
F mother by Court- Violation of the order by father-, Conviction
  for contempt of Court by court below - Held: Conviction needs
  no interference - However sentence restricted to period           ·--r-
  already undergone.

      Respondent-mother filed an application u/s 6 of
G Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act, 1956 seeking
  custody of .her minor child, who was_ in the custody of the
  appellant-father. According to the respondent, appellant
  snatched the child from her custody and she was also
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  kept in illegal confinement. She filed police complaints
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                 GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                   397


         alleging her wrongful confinement and kidnapping of the         A
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         child. She had filed application before Magistrate as well
         as filed Habeas Corpus petition, wherein the respective
         Courts had directed the appellant to produce the child.
         Despite that, appellant did not produce the child.
         Eventually the application and the petition were                B
         dismissed by the respective Courts. Her Special Leav~
         Petition as well as petition under Article 32 of th~
  T      Constitution were dismissed by this Court directing her
         to file a petition u/s. 6 of Hindu Minority and GuardianshiJ>
         Act, 1956 and s. 25 of Guardians and Wards Act, 1890.           c
         The petition u/s. 6 of 1956 Act and s. 25 of 1890 Act, was
         opposed by the appellant, alleging that the respondent
         had abandoned the child. Respondent also sought
         interim custody which was rejected by trial court. In ~

         Revision against denial of interim custody, High Court          D
         continued the interim custody with the appellant, but
         granted visitation rights to the respondent. Respondent
         then filed contempt petition against the appellant for
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         flouting of visitation rights. High Court found him guilty
         of contempt of court. Ultimately, trial court granted
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         custody of the child to the respondent. In appeal High
         Court stayed the order of custody but continued the
         visitation rights of respondent. High Court eventually
         dismissed the appeal. Appeal against order of conviction
         for contempt of court was also dismissed. Hence the
         present appeals.                                                F
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              Appellant contended that there was no reason to
         give custody of the child to the respondent as he did not
         suffer any disability in his role as a father; that u/s 6 of .
         1956 Act, father is the natural guardian of a minor child; .G
         that he is able to provide good education to the child
   -4-   having good financial means which the respondent did
    "    not have; that taking the child out of the custody of father
         would cause problems as the child was living with him
         since long.                                                    H
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A         Dismissing the appeals, the Court                        .f-~.

         HELD: 1.1. In determining the question as to who
    should be given custody of a minor child, the paramount
    consideration is the 'welfare of the child' and not rights
8   of the parents under a statute for the time being in force.
    [Para 35] [417-G]

      1.2. Ordinarily, the basis for issuance of a writ of         .t
  habeas corpus is an illegal detention; but in the case of
  such a writ sued out for the detention of a child, the law
C is concerned not so much with the illegality of the
  detention as with the welfare of the child. [Para 27] [413-
  H; 414-A]

          1.3. Simply because the father loves his children and
o is not shown to be otherwise undesirable does not
  necessarily :ead to the conclusion that the welfare of the
  children would be better promoted by granting their
  custody to him. Children are not mere chattels nor are
  they toys for their parents. Absolute right of parents over
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E the destinies and the lives of their children, in the modern
  changed social conditions must yield to the
  considerations of their welfare as human beings so that
  they may grow up in a normal balanced manner to be
  useful members of the society and the guardian court in
  case of a dispute between the mother and the father, is
F expected to strike a just and proper balance between the
  requirements of welfare of the minor children and the
  rights of their respective parents over them. [Para 40]
  [418-H; 419-A-C]

G     1.4. When the court is confronted with conflicting
  demands made by the parents, each time it has to justify
  the demands. The Court has not only to look at the issue         )-
  on legalistic basis, in such matters human angles are
  relevant for deciding those issues. The court then does
H not give e'mphasis on what the parties say, it has to
                  GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                     399

.---(..   exercise a jurisdiction which is aimed at the welfare of the      A
          minor. The Court has to give due weightaae to the child's
          ordinary contentment, health, education, intellectual
          development and favourable surroundings but over and
          above physical comforts, the moral and ethical values
          have also to be noted. They are equal if not more                 B
          important than the others. [Para 42] [419-E-G]
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               1.5. The word 'welfare' used in Section 13 of Hindu
          Minority and Guardianship Act, 1956 has to be construed
          literally and must be taken in its widest sense. The mora'I
          and ethical welfare of the child must also weigh with the         c
          Court as well as its physical well being. Though the
          provisions of the special statutes which govern the rights
          of the parents or guardians may be taken into
          consideration, there is nothing which can stand in the
          way of the Court exercising its parens patriae jurisdiction       D
          arising in such cases. [Para 43] [419-H; 420-A]

               1.6. In determining whether it will be for the best
          interests of a child to grant its custody to the father or
          mother, the Court may properly consult the child, if it has       E
          sufficient judgment. [Para 23] [411-E]

              1.7. In the instant case, the conclusions arrived at
          and reasons indicated by the High Court to grant the,
          custody to the mother does not suffer from any infirmity.
"I--'     It is true that taking the child out of the father's custody F
          may cause some problems, but that is bound to be.
          neutralized. [Para 45] [420-D]

              1.8. It is correct that the child is living since long with
          the father. But by flouting various orders, leading even G
          to initiation of contempt proceedings, the appellant has
•.....    managed to keep custody of the child. He can not be a
          beneficiary of his own wrongs. The High Court has ·
          referred to these aspects in detail in the impugned
          judgments. [Para 44] [420-8-C]                           H
    400       SUPREME COURT REPORTS             [2008] 16 S.C.R.

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A      1.9. The child's education for which father is              -!--~

  spending good amount of money and the mother                               ·"
  according to the appellants does not have the financial
  affluence to provide, can be taken care of, if father· is
  asked to pay the educational expenses of the child, in
B addition to the maintenance being paid to the respondent.
  [Para 46] [420-E-F]

         1.10. The father needs to have visitation rights of the
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    child. In partial modification of the order passed by the
    District Judge an~ the High Court, the terms of the
c   visitation rights are modified. [Paras 46 and 47] [420-F-G]

       Saraswathibai Shripad v. Shripad Vasanji, ILR 1941 Born
  455 : AIR 1941 Born 103; Rosy Jacob v. Jacob A.
  Chakramakkal 1973 (1) SCC 840; Thrity Hoshie Dolikuka v.
D Hoshiam Shavaksha Dolikuka 1982 (2) SCC 544; Surinder
  Kaur Sandhu (Smt.) v. Harbax Singh Sandhu 1984 (3) SCC
  698; Elizabeth Dinshaw (Mrs.) v. Arvand M. Dinshaw 1987 (1)
  SCC 42; Chandrakala Menon (Mrs.) v. Vipin Menon (Capt)               .r-
    1993 (2) sec 6, relie.d on.
E         Mousami Moitra Ganguli vs. Jayant Ganguli, JT 2008 (6)
    SC 634, referred to
                          .
        Mc Grc~th, Re, 1893 (1) Ch 143 : 62 LJ Ch 208; Howarth
•   v. Northcott, 152 Conn 460 : 208 A 2nd 540 : 17 ALR 3rd
F 758, referred to.
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       Halsbury's Laws of England, Fourth Edition, Vol. 24,
    Page 217; Habeas Corpus by Bailey Vol. I, pag.e 581;
    American Jurisprudence, Second Edition, Vol. 39; Para 31;
    Page 34 and Para 148 at PP. 20-81, referred to. ·
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         2. The .order of -the High.Court, finding the appellant
    guilty of contempt of court does not suffer from any               }
    infirmity. But taking into account the fact that the
    conn.ected civil appeal relating to the custody of the child
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                       GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                  40~




     "'" -4.   has been dismissed, while upholding the finding of guilt        A
               for disobeying the Court's order and committing
               contempt of Court, the sentence is restricted to the period
               already undergone. [Para 49] [421-D]
                                 Case Law Reference:                           B
                   JT 2008 (6) SC 634       Referred to          Para 13
       i-          ILR 1941 Born 455        Relied on.           Para 37
                   1973 (1) sec 840         Relied on.           Para 38
                                                                               c
                   19s2 (2) sec 544         Relied on.           Para 39
                   1984 (3) sec 698         Relied on.           Para 41
                   1987 (1) sec 42          Relied on.           Para 41
                   1993 (2) sec s           Relied on.           Para 41       D

                   CIVIL APPELLATE JURISDICTION : Civil Appeal No.
        ~      5099 of 2007.

                   From the final Order dated 13.7.2007 of the High Court of
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               Punjab and Haryana at Chandigarh in FAO No. 306 of 2007.

                                          WITH

               Crl. A.No. 491 of 2006.

                   Shanti Bhushan, Nandini Gore, Debmalya Benerjee, Prachi . F
         ·r·
               Goel and Manik Karanjawala for the Appellant.

                   Sumedha Nagpal-Respondent-ln-person.

                   The Judgment of the Court was delivered by
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                    DR. ARIJIT PASAYAT, J. 1. Challenge in this appeal is
         --t   to the judgment of a learned Single Judge of the Punjab and
               Haryana High Court dismissing the appeal filed by the
               appellant. Learned District Judge, Gurgaon, had allowed the
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    402        SUPREME COURT REPORTS                 [2008] 16 S.C.R.


A   application filed by the respondent-wife under Section 6 of the ·
    Hindu Minority and Guardianship Act, 1956 (in short the 'Act')
    alongwith Section 25 of the Guardians and Wards Act, 1890
    (in short 'Guardian Act').

B          2. Matrimonial discords are on the rise at an alarming rate.
     The sanctity of marriages is under cloud, which in a great way
     affects the society at large. Individuals can in no way be             .t·
     segregated from the society to which they belong. The cultural
     heritage of a country is greatly influenced by a pattern of
C    behaviour of individuals and more so in matters of matrimony.
     Home can be a wonderful place to live. But continuous fights
     between the partners of a marriage disturb the atmosphere at
     home and create havoc on the members of a family. One does
     not need a mansion to lead a happy marital home. The
     foundation of a happy home is love, sharing of joys and sorrows,
D    and not in that sense bricks and concrete. There should be
     cementing of hearts and not cementing of floors and walls. Life
     is a series of awakening. The happiness whi.ch brings e~during
    worth to life is not the superficial happiness that is dependent
    on circumstances. Ultimately, in the fight between the partners,
E   the victims more often than not are the children. It is unfortunate
    that in their fight more often on account of egoism the children
     suffer, more particularly when the child is a girl. It is not
    uncommon to see that at the time of negotiation of marriage,
    the boy's parents shy away because the girl is from a broken
F   family and/or the parents are divorced. The child has practically
    no role in breaking of the marriage, but he or she suffers. The       ··-r
    marital discord sometimes reaches a stage where the parties
    are unmindful of what psychological, mental and physical impact
    it has on children. It is worse when there is a single child, be it
G   a boy or a girl. The case at hand is a classic example where
    the child has become the focus of controversy. Bitter legal fights
    have been fought and the corridors of several courts including         ;.t-
    the Supreme Court have been travelled by the parties. Efforts
    have been made unsuccessfully to bring about conciliation
H   between the parties. The best way to make children good said
                   GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                 403
                        [DR ARIJIT PASAYAT, J.]
v~     a learned author is to make them happy.                            A

           3. A brief reference to the factual aspects leaving out the
       maize of unnecessary facts would suffice.

              The parties got married on 14.10.1996 and the child from
        their wedlock was born on 15.11.1997. According to the B
        appellant, respondent abandoned the child on 8.8.1999 but she
~·      filed a Habeas Corpus Petition before the Delhi High Court on
        25.8.1999. The High Court dismissed the petition on the ground
        of territorial jurisdiction. Respondent filed a Special Leave
        Petition against the High Court's order dated 14.1.2000 and      c
        also filed a Writ Petition under Article 32 of the Constitution of
        India, 1950 (in short the 'Constitution'). This Court permitted
       interim custody of the 20 months old child with the appellant.
       The respondent filed a maintenance petition before the Delhi
       High Court and also a petition for guardianship before a learned D
       Additional District Judge, Jhajjar. The same was later withdrawn
       and the petition was filed in the District Court, Gurgaon.
       Appellant flied his reply opposing the application on the ground
       that the respondent had deserted the child. By order dated
       2.5.2002, learned Civil Judge dismissed the application for E
       interim custody holding that any dIBturbance by changing the
       custody of the child would traumatize him and shall not be
       conducive to the welfare of the child and it would affect the
       mental balance of the child who had developed love and
       affection for his father and his family members. A Revision F
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       Petition was filed by the respondent before the High Court. The
       High Court granted the visitation rights to the respondent by
       order 30.9.2002 but continued the interim custody with the
       appellant. The visitation rights fixed by the Court were in the
       following terms:
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               (a) 9 a.m. to 5 p.m. on every last Saturday of the month.

             (b)     For a week in the aforesaid manner in summer
                     vacations.
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A         (c)    One day in Dussehra holidays (9 a.m. to 5 p.m.               ~

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          (d)    One day in Diwali Holidays (9 a.m. to 5 p.m.).                     ,_


    A contempt petition was filed for violation of the terms by the
    appellant. The learned District Judge, Gurgaon allowed- the
B   petition of the respondent and granted custody of the child to
    the respondent. Appellant preferred an appeal before the High
    Court against the order dated 6.1.2007. The High Court passed
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    an interim order staying the order of custody to the respondent
    but continued the order with respect to visitation rights. By order
c   dated 13. 7.2007 the appeal filed by the appellant was
    dismissed. Though the initial order of the High Court was
    stayed, subsequently by order dated 29.10.2007 the visitation
    rights were continued.

D        4. According to the appellant, the order ofthe High Court
    is clearly wrong on several counts. The order passed by the
    High Court dated 9.3.2005 convicting the appellant for contempt
    of court has also been assailed in Criminal Appeal No.491. of
    2006. The Trial Court came to hold that since the child had
    remained with the appellant for a period of 7 years, he appears
E
    to have made every possible effort to obtain the custody of a
    minor. The learned District Judge took note of.the fact that taking
    of the child from his father's custody may adversely affect the
    sentiments and upbringing of the child, but at the same time
    the child should not be deprived the mother's home.
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         5. Stand of the appellant before the High Court was that
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    the court below had not held that he suffers from any disability
    in his role as a father and, therefore, there was no
    comprehensive reason for the Court to direct custody of the
G   child to be entrusted to the respondent. The fact that the
    respondent was the mother cannot be the sole basis. for
    allowing the petition. While considering the prayer for the               f
    custody of the child, several factors including the relationship
    between the parties and the minor are secondary. It was
H   submitted that the minor was abandoned when he was about
                       GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                     405
                            [DR. ARIJIT PASAYAT, J.]

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              one year and nine months old. Thereafter, in the garb of seeking     A
              custody several rounds of litigation were unleashed.      ·

                   6. With reference to Section 6 of the Act it was submitted
              that the father was the legal guardian and the welfare of the
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              minor child lies with the appellant. He has a large income and
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     .,.      resides in a joint family where the minor is taken care of by the
              appellant, his mother, brother and brother's wife and his three
              nephews. The warmth of the joint family has led to an all round
              development of the child and by taking him away from those
              surroundings can deprive him of love and affection. The
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              appellant lives in a posh locality and the house is built on nearly
              3000 sq. yards whereas the respondent resides with her
              parents in a two·bed room flat. Apart from that the appellant
              has a good educational background and since the child has
              been residing for the last more than seven years with him, the
              courts should not have directed handing over custody to the D
              respondent.

                   7. It was further pointed out that the primary focus being
              the welfare of the child, the respondent should have brought on
              record as to how with her meagre income she would be able            E
              to provide good education to the child. It was pointed out that
              the child is afraid of his mother and wrenching him from the
              custody of the father would lead to irreparable mental trauma.

                   8. So far as the contempt proceedings were concerned it
              was submitted that the appellant is not a criminal and though        F
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              certain cases have been lodged against him they are related
              to some technical violations.

                   9. The respondent's stand on the other hand was that the
              appellant had shifted his residence to Bahadurgarh by                G
              deception and fraud. From there the child was snatched from
      A....   her custody on 1.8.1999. Since that date she has approached
              various courts to seek custody of the child and for redressal of
              her grievances. The respondent got order relating to interim
              custody. For failure to comply with the orders of interim custody,   H
     406                                      SUPREME COURT REPORTS                                                                                                                  [2008] 16 S.C.R.


A    the apP.~llant was convicte9 by the Higt:i Court a~d s~ntenced ,
     to one month's imprisonment and though the order of sentence
     has been stayed, the order of conviction still continues to be in ·
     force·:·The;appellant's conduct in.disobeying the 0rders passed
     by. the . court~ disclos.es that he has no· respec:t .or· any regard."
B. for the .rule· of lawdt was further·submitted that the child's welfare
  .. can riot be weigheq· in terms of money, facilities, ·area of a .house·
     or· the 1financial might of either the father or:the mother. It was
     pointed out that respondent had no option but to reside with
     her parents and· is a teacher in. Salwan Public School. Merely
c because she was residing with the parents cannot disqualify
  , her from looking after her child. She· may not be as financially
     sound as the appellant, but that alone cannot disentitle her from.
     the custody of the child. &he has stated that she was c;lrawing
     a salary of Rs.13,000/-p.m. (which is likely to be substantially
D increased) and was receiving Rs.25,000/- as maintenance -···
     pursuant to the order passed by the Delhi High Court and she
     can look after the financial needs for educating the child. She.
     resides in Gulabi Bagh which is well located and surrounded
     and there is1·a park nearby. The·colony has 8_.10 parks and it                                                                                                                                                                          '%
     is ·a better location Where ·the child can be well developed. ·
E ··Therefore~ it cannot be·said'that the respondennesides in an
     area 'which is unsuitable to the minor child .. · · ·

          .> 10: It· is also pointed out that the·appellantnas no· fixed'
      residence. He shifted from Delhi to Bahadurgarh and then
F I Gurga'o'ri 'ahd back tb ·Delhi in· a house' in Sainik farm where
      the·-appeliant claims to reside. Same is owned by hi's brother:                                                                                                                                                                        ·-y·
      It has been'a delioerate· attempt tcJ'poisori the ·mind of the child:                                                                                                                                                                    I



      Negative facts have been fed into the child's mind against the ·
      re~P9'1.den~. I~ vyas f!J~~.~r s~~IT!i,tt_e~ th~~ !f sy~~i~,n~ time is given
G .,,,the chil_d,yJoi.JJ~ ?v~rc9tn'e ahy_tutqreq prejudice. Though, there
     was· a claim that the·relatives would provide healthy environment
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                 GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                      407
                      [DR. ARIJIT PASAYAT, J.]

        of the minor is of paramount consideration. The High Court           A
 • -+   looking into the materials placed observed as follows:

             "In view of the facts, noticed herein before, the question
             that exercises this Court's mind is should the child be
             permitted to stay with a· father, who inculcates fear and       B'
             apprehension in the mind of minor, against his mother and
             thwarts court orders with impunity. the answer to the above
·~.          questions, in my opinion, must be in the negative. The
             appellant, cannot wish away his role, in the minor
             harboring such an irrational fear towards the mother. I am
             conscious of the fact that directing the custody of the child
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             to the respondent, may result in a degree of trauma.
             However, the daily trauma the child appears to undergo
             while being tutored against his mother would be far in
             excess of the trauma likely to be faced while entrusting to
             the respondent. The minor child must be allowed to grow         D
             up with a healthy regard for both parents. A parent in this
             case, the appellant, who poisons the minor's mind against
             the other parent cannot possibly be stated to act for the
             welfare of the minor."
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              11. It is submitted that the High Court was not oblivious of
        the financial status of the respondent. The High Court also found
        that large area of accommodation and financial affluence
                   a
        cannot be determinative faCtor. Therefore, the High Court did
        not find any scope for interference with the order of the court      F
  ,_.   below.

            12. In support of the appeal, learned counsel for the
        appellant re-iterated the stand taken before the High Court. It
        was additionally submitted that the child's reluctance to go with
        the mother should have been duly considered by the High              G
        Court. Apparently, that has not been done.
  ~         13. Strong reliance is placed on a decision of this Court
        in Mausami Moitra Ganguli v. Jayant Ganguli (JT 2008 (6) SC
        634) wherein this Court on 12th May, 2008 dismissed the              H
    408             SUPREME COURT REPORTS                  [2008] 16 S.C.R.


A mother's .appeal,
       '    .   '
                    according .to appellant,
                     '         '   .  ..   .
                                             on identical
                                               ~   ..     facts ..
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          14. The Respondent, who appeared in'.person, highlighted .
  the sta~ds take!J by her before the learned Qistrict J1:1dge and
  th~ High Court. The main. plank of,appellant's argument is to
  continue custody.with the father. The appellant.ha~ :managed
8
  to retain .the,. custody by flouting the order p·asseq, ~y ~his Court.
  It is. poin~ed out by the respondent that for flouting the.orders of
  th¢ Court the appellant has been convicted for contempt of court
  which is the subject matter of challenge iri criminal appeal. It
  was not the first instance when the appellant flouted the order.
C It is poJnted out that the factual scenario in Mausami Moitra's
  case (supra) was entirely different. In that case, courts below
  had analysed the material to conclude that it would be desirable
  to give custody to tne father. The factual .scenario is. entirely
  different here.
D
        15. It is to be noticed as done at the threshold that inthe
    present dispute the child has become the
           (.                                 .
                                                victim. ·
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           16. It is pointed out by the respondent that she· was not
E   aware that the appellant was a divorcee; The first wife was ill
    treated by the appellant and t:iis relatives on account of alleged
     meagre dowri. She was eventually ousted from the matrimonial
    home alongwith a minor child. Since the appellant demanded
    custody of the child and threatened the respondent, information
    was lodged at the Police Station .. On 1.8: 1999 while the
F   re.spondent was attending to household chores, the appellant
    whisked away their minor child and sent him to some unknown               ·-y
    place at Delhi. The respondentwas bundled into a car e1nd kept             '

    in illegal confinement at the house of one Sh. Bal Kishan Dang
    from' where she escaped on 8.8,1999. She sent telegrams to
G   various authoriti~s and a'fo'rmal co!'Tlplaint was lodged with the
    Police Station, Sarai· ·Rohiila alleging wrongful confinement and
    kidnapping of the child. In the meanwhile, the respondent's
    father lodged a complaint with the police at Bahadurgarh. The
    appellant was· arrested and produced before the Court at
H   Bahadu,rgarh. An application was filed before the Sub-
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                         GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                       409
                              [DR. ARIJIT PASAYAT, J.]
      ' ---1-
                Divisional Judicial Magistrate, Bahadurgarh, requesting the           A
                court to hold an inquiry, as to the whereabouts of the minor child.
                The Magistrate passed an order directing the appellant to
                produce the child on the next date of hearing. However, as the
                 respondent could not reach the court in time, the Magistrate
                granted bail to the appellant and declined the prayer for             B
.....           production of the minor child. Thereafter, the respondent, filed
                an application for issuance of a writ in the nature of Habeas
                Corpus before the High Court at Delhi. Despite issuance of
                notice, the appellant failed to produce the child. Eventually on
                 11.1.2000, the petition was dismissed for want of territorial        c
                jurisdiction. The respondent, thereafter, filed a Special Leave
                Petition before this Court, as also a writ petition under Article
                32 of the Constitution. Both these petitions were dismissed by
                this Court, directing the respondent, to avail her remedy before
                the Guardian Court. The respondent, thereafter filed a petition       D
                under Section 6 of the Act, praying for the custody of the minor
                child. The respondent, prayed before the Trial Court that as she
                was the mother of a minor child and as she did not suffer from
                any disability, the appellant be directed to hand over the custody
                of the minor child. It was averred in the petition that though the
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                appellant claimed to be the owner of various companies, he
                had committed various frauds.

                        17. The appellant played fraud with the respondent by
                  concealing the fact that he was earlier married to one Alka
          y-·     Nagpal and his marriage broke as he is supposed to have             F
                , similarly tortured and harassed his wife as was made out to
                 the respondent. It is the respondent's case that as she was
                  unable to bear the physical and mental agony, Alka Nagpal
                 committed suicide within six months of her marriage. It is also
                 pointed out that the criminal cases involving offences               G
                 punishable under Sections 498A, 406, 323, 506, 343 and 109
         ~
                 IPC are pending in the CBI Court, Patiala against the appellant
                 and his family members. It is also pointed out that the child was
                 shifted from one school to another at various places in Haryana
                 and Delhi.                                                           H
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A        18. It was pointed out that the conduct of the appellant was
   noted by the Local Commissioner of Police in his report on
   10.10.2003 who cornmitted repeated defaults in bringing the
   child on various dates. The High Court noted that fact and came
   to a conclusion that the appellant had willfully disobeyed the
B orders of this Court and had poisoned the mind of the child
   against the moth~r. It was·further noted that the child could only      .-.t-
 · meet the mother with the help of a duty Magistrate.            ·

        19. We shall first deal with.law relating ~o.cu~tody in various
    countries.
c
    E_nglish Law

        20. In Halsbury's Laws ·of England, Fourth Edition, Vol. 24,
    para 511 at page 217 it has been stated;
D          "Where in anyproceedings before any court the custody
           or upbringing of a minor is in question, then, in deciding
           that question, the court must regard the minor's welfare
           as the first and paramount .consideration, and may not
           take into consideration whether from any other poinf of
E          view the father's claim in respect of that custody or
           upbringing is superior to that of the mother, or the mother's
           claim is superior to that of the father."

                                                 (emphasis supplied)
F
        It has also been stated that if the minor is of any age to
    exercise a choice, the court will .take his wishes into
    consideration. (para 534; page 229).

      21. Sometimes, a writ of habeas corpus is sought for
G custody of a minor child. In such cases also, the paramount
  consideration which is' required to be kept 'in view by writ- a          !--·
  Court is 'welfare·of the child'.

       · 22. In Habeas Corpus, Vol. I, page 581, Bailey states;
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  "
                    GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                       411
                         [DR ARIJIT PASAYAT, J.]

·-     •
                "The reputation of the father may be as stainless as crystal; A
                he may not be afflicted with the slightest mental, moral or
                physical disqualifications from superintending the general
                welfare of the infant; the mother may have been separated
                from him without the shadow of a pretence of justification;
                and yet the .interests of the child may imperatively demand B
                the denial of the father's right and its continuance with the
                mother. The tender age and precarious state of its health
                make the vigilance of the mother indispensable to its
                proper care; for, not doubting that paternal anxiety would
                seek for and obtain the best substitute which could be c
                procured yet every instinct of humanity unerringly proclaims
                that no substitute can supply the place of her whose
                watchfulness over the sleeping cradle, or waking moments
                of her offspring, is prompted by deeper and holier feeling
                than the most liberal allowance of nurses' wages could D
                possibly stimulate."

                23. It is further observed that an incidental aspect, which
           has a ·bearing on the question, may also be adverted to. In
           determining whether it will be for the best interests of a child to
           grant its custody to the father or mother, the Court may properly     E
           consult the child, if it has sufficient judgment.

                24. In Mc Grath, Re, (1893) 1 Ch 143 : 62 LJ Ch 208,
           Lindley, L.J. observed;
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                 The dominant matter for the consideration of the Court
               is the welfare of the child. But the welfare of the child is
                not to be measured by money only nor merely physical
               comfort. The word 'welfare' must be taken in its widest
               sense. The moral or religious welfare of the child must be
               considered as well as its physical well-being. Nor can the        G
               tie ..of affection be disregarded.    ·
  ..
J...

                                                       (emphasis supplied)

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A   American Law                                                            1-· \
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        25. Law in the United States is also· not different. In
    American Jurisprudence, Second Edition, Vol. 39; ·para 31;
    page 34, it is stated;·
B          "As a rule, in the selection of a guardian of a minor, the
          ~best interest of the child is the paramount consideration,
           tq which even the rights of parents must sometimes yield".
                 (emphasis supplied)
                                                                                  "
c          In para 148; pp.280-81; it is stated;

            "Generally, where the writ of habeas corpus is prosecuted
            for the purpose of determining the right to custody of a
            child, the controversy does not involve the question of
            personal freedom, because an infant is presumed to be
D           in the custody of someone until it attains its majority. The
            Court, in passing on the writ in a child custody case, deals
            with a matter of an equitable nature, it is not bound by any
            mere legal right of parent or guardian, but is to give his or
            her claim ~o !he custody of the child due weight as a claim
                                                                             "
E         . founded on human nature and generally equitable and just.
            Therefore, these cases are decided, not on the legal right
            of the petitioner to be relieved from unlawful imprisonment
            or detention, as in the case of an adult but on the Court's
            view of the best interests of those whose welfare requires
F           that they be in custody of one person or another; and           --..y
            hence, a court is not bound to deliver a child into the
            custody of any ciaimant or of any person, but should, in the
            exercise of a sound discretion, after careful consideration
            of the facts, leave if in such custody as its welfare at the
G           time appears to require. In short, the child's welfare is the
            supreme consideration, irrespective of the rights and·
            wrongs of its contending parents, ·a/though the natural           ~
                                                                               >.
            rights of the parents are entitled to consideration.

          An application by a parent, through the medium of a
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              GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                     413
                   [DR. ARIJIT PASAYAT, J.]

          habeas corpus proceeding, for custody of a child is A
          addressed to the discretion of the court, and custody may
          be withheld from the parent where it is made clearly to
          appear that by reason of unfitness for the trust or of other
          sufficient causes the permanent interests of the child would
          be sacrificed by a change of custody. In determining , B
          whether it will be for the best interest of a child to award
          its custody to the father or mother, the Cowt may properly
          consult the child, if it has sufficient judgment".

                                                (emphasis supplied)
                                                                         c
           26. In Howarth v. Northcott, 152 Conn 460 : 208 A 2nd 540
      : 17 ALR 3rd 758; it was stated;

          "In habeas corpus proceedings to determine child custody,
          the jurisdiction exercised by the Court rests in such cases    o
          on its inherent equitable powers and exerts the force of the
          State, as parens patriae, for the protection of its infant
          ward, and the very nature and scope of the inquiry and the
          result sought to be accomplished call for the exercise of
          the jurisdiction of a court of equity".                        g
          It was further observed;

...       "The employment of the forms of habeas corpus in a child
          custody case is not for the purpose of testing the legality
          of a confinement or restraint as contemplated by the           F
          ancient common law writ, or by statute, but the primary
          purpose is to furnish a means by which the court, in the
          exercise of its judicial discretion, may determine what is
          best for the welfare of the child, and the decision is
          reached by a consideration of the equities involved in the     G
          welfare of the child, against which. the legal rights of no
          one, including the parents, are allowed to militate".

                                                (emphasis supplied)
          27. It was also indicated that ordinarily, the basis for       H
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 A   issuance of a writ of habeas corpus is an illegal detention; but
     in the case of such a writ sued out for the detention of a child,
     the law is concerned not so much with the illegality of the
     detention as with the welfare of the child.           ·

 B      28. The legal position in India follows the above doctrine.
   There are various statutes which give legislative recognition to
   these well-established principles. It would be appropriate if we
   examine some-.of the statutes dealing with the ·situation.
   Guardians Act, consolidates and amends the law relating to
 C guardians a·nd wards. Section 4 of the said Act defines "minor"
   as .a person who has not attained the age of majority.
   "Guardian" means a person ha.ving the care of the person of a
   minor or of his property, or of both his person and property.
   "Ward" is defined as a minor·for whose person or property or
   both, there is a guardian. Chapter II (Sections 5 to 19 of
 D Guardians Act) relates to appointment. and declaration of
   guardians. Section 7 thereof deals with 'power of the Court to
   make order as .to guardianship' and reads as under: .

           7. Power of the Court to make order as to.guardianship.-
 E         (1) Where the Court is satisfied that it is for the welfare of
           a minor that an order should be made-

        · (a) appointing a guardian of his person or property, or both,
          or

 F         (b) declaring a person to be .such a guardian,

           the Court may make an order accordingly.

         (2) An order under this section shall imply the removal of
         arty guardian who has not been appointed by will or other
G      , instru·ment ot appointed or declared by the·Court.-

           (3) Where a guardian has been appointed by will or other
           instrument or appointed or declared by the Court, an order
           under this section appointing or declaring another person
·H         to' be guardian in his stead shall not be made until the
                GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                      415
                     [DR ARIJIT PASAYAT, J.]
            powers of the guardian appointed or declared as                 A
            aforesaid have ceased under the provisions of this Act.

              29. Section 8 of the Guardians Act enumerates person~
        entitled to apply for an order as to guardianship. Section 9
        empowers the Court having jurisdiction to entertain an              8
        application for guardianship. Sections 10 to 16 deal with
 (
        procedure and powers of Court. Section 17 is another material
        provision and may be reproduced;

            "17. Matters to be considered by the Court in appointing
            guardian.-(1) In appointing or declaring the guardian of a      C
            minor, the Co!Jrt shall, subject to the provisions of this
            section, be guided by what, consistently with the law tq>
            which the minor is subject, appears in the circumstances
            to be for the welfare of the minor.
                                                                            D
            (2) In considering what will be for the welfare of the minor,
            the Court shall have regard to the age, sex and religion of
            the minor, the character and capacity of the proposed
            guardian and his nearness of kin to the minor, the wishesl,
            if any, of a deceased parent, and any existing or previous      E
            relations of the proposed guardian with the minor or his
            property.

            (3) If the minor is old enough to form an intelligent
,....       preference, the Court may consider that preference.
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                                      *****

            (5) The Court shall not appoint or declare any person to
            be a guardian against his will.

                                                   (emphasis supplied)      G
                                                 • ·•   .               I


            30. Section 19 prohibits the Court from appointing
        guardians in certain cases.

            Chapter Ill (Sections 20 to 42) prescribes duties, rights       H
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" A     and liabilities of guardians.

             31. The Act is another equally important statute relating to     '~...
        minority and guardianship among Hindus. Section 4 defines
        "minor" as a person who has not completed the age of
.       eighteen years. "Guardian" means a person having the care
    8
        of the person of a minor or of his property or of both his persons
        and property, and inter alia includes a natural guardian.· Section
        2 of the Act declares that the provisions of the Act shall be in
        addi~ion to, and not in derogation of 1890 Act.

    c       32. Section 6 enactS as to who can be said to be a natural
        guardian. It reads thus;

              6.Natural guardians of a Hindu Minor.·The natural
              guardians of a Hindu minor, in respect of the minor's
    D         person as well as in respect of the minor's property
              (excluding his· or her undivided interest in joint family
              property), are·
                                .
                   . (a) in the case of a boy or an unmarried girl-the
              father, _and after him, the mother; provided that the custody
    E         of a minor who has not complete~ the age of five years
              shall ordinarily be with the mother;

                  (b) in the case of an illegitimate boy or an illegitimate
              unmarried girl-the mother, and after her, the father.
    F
                     (c) in the case of a married girl-the husband:

                    Provided that no person shall be entitled to .act as
              the natural guardian of a minor under the provisions of this
              section·
    G
               (a)    if he has ceased to be a Hindu, or

               (b)    if he.has completely and finally renqunced the world
                      becoming a hermit (vanaprastha) or an ascetic (yati
                      or sanyasi).
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                        GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                         417
                             [DR ARIJIT PASAYAT, J.]
                    Explanation. -In this .s~~ti<?.n, the .expressions "father"_ and   A
 .~                 "mother" do not include a step-father and a step-mother.

                    33. Section ~ -enumerates,_powers pfnatural guardian.
               Section 13 is extremely important provision and deals with
               welfare of a minor: The same may be quoted in extenso;                  B
  ~~



       ,
       '            13. Welfare of minor to be paramount consideration.
~-.1_                      _( 1) In the appointment or declaration of any person
                            as guardian of a Hindu minor by a court, the
                            welfare of the minor shall be the paramount                c
                            consideration.

                           (2) No, person shall be entitled to the guardianship
                           by virtue of the provisions of this Act or of any law
                           relating to guardianship in marriage among Hindus,
                           if the court is of opinion that his or her guardianship     D
                           will not be for the welfare of the minor.

   ~
                                                             (emphasis supplied)

                   · 34. Section 26 of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 provides           E
               for custody of children and declares that in any proceeding
               under the said Act, the Court could make, from time to time,
               such interim orders as it might deem just and proper with
               respect to custody, maintenance and education of minor
               children, consistently with their wishes, wherever possible.            F,
       '~.           35. The principles in relation to the custody of a minor child
               are well settled. In determining the question as to who should
               be given custody of a minor child, the paramount consideration
               is the 'welfare of the child' and not rights of the parents under a
               statute for the time being in force.                                    G

                    36. The aforesaid statutory provisions came up for
       ;,_
           .   consideration before Courts in India in several cases. Let us
               deal with few decisions wherein the courts have applied the
               principles relating to grant of custody of minor children by taking     H
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A into account their interest and we!l-being· as paramount
  consideration .. -          ,·,                                                     t- -· ·

       - , 37.: 111 SaraswathibaiShripa<:J.v. Shripad Vasanji, ILR 1941
     Born, 455·<- AIR 1941 Bom·103i the High Court of Bombay
     stated;--,-.··       >.· •                     •     ,., ._. .. , .
B·
                 - .. It is not the -welfare of the father, nor the welfare of
             the mother that is the paramount consideration for the
             Court. It is the we!fa're ofthe minor and the minor alone
            -which is the paramount consideration."
c
                                                         (emphasis supplied)
        38. In Rosy Jacob v. Jacob A. Chakramakkal, (1973) 1
   SCC 840, this Court held that object and purpose of 1890 Act
   is-not merely physical custody of the minor but due protection
0 of the rights of ward's health, maintenance and education. The
  power and duty of the· Court under the Act is the welfare of
  minor. In considering the question of welfare of minor, due
  regard has of course to be given to the right of the father_ as
  natu,ral guardian but if the custody of the father cannot promote
E the welfare of the. children, he may be refused such
  gu~rdi,anship.
        '    •        ~ I
                            ..
      '1.-39_ ·Again, iri Thrity Hoshie Dofikuka v. ·Hoshiam
    ShaJaksha Dolikuka;'(1982) 2 SCC 544; this Court reitelated
F • that the 'Only consideration ·of the Court i'n dedding the question ·
    of custody of minor should be_ the vyelfare an_d. interest of, the
    minor. An8 it is the special duty f)nd responsibility of the Court..
    Matu~e thj!J_~ing i~ 'lnd:e.ed ne~essary i'n s_uch. situatio_n to de¢ide.
    what will
           - ., .
                  enure
                    .   to the benefit
                                ' . .  .and welfare of the child.
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                                                                           -
G           40. Merely because there is no defect in his personal care:"
      and his attachment for his childr~n-whic~ every normal parent                       (
      has, he wouid not be_ granted custody. Simply because the
      father. loves his children.'and is not. shown to be otherWise
    . undesirable
          .  '•,I.
                   does not necessa'rily,
                            " ,·1'   •
                                          lead to th~ conclusion. that the ,
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                GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                      419
                     [DR. ARIJIT PASAYAT, J.]
       welfare of the children would be better promoted by granting .A
       their custody to him. Children are not mere chattels nor are they
       toys for their parents. Absolute right of parents over the destinies
       and the lives <;>f their childr~n. in the. modern changed social
       conditions must.yield to the considerations of their welfa~e as
       human beings so that they may grow up in a normal balanced          a
       manner to be useful members of the society and the guardian

l      court in case of a dispute between the mother and the father,
       is expected to strike a just and proper balance between the
       requirements of welfare of the minor children and the rights of
       their respective parents over them.                                  c
            41. In Surinder Kaur Sandhu (Smt.) v. Harbax Singh
       Sandhu, (1984) 3 SCC 698, this Court held that Section 6 of
       the Act constitutes father as a natural guardian of a minor son.
       But that provision cannot supersede the paramount
       consideration as to what is conducive to ihe welfare of the D
       minor. [See also Elizabeth Dinshaw (Mrs.) v. Arvand M.
       Dinshaw, (1987) 1 SCC 42; Chandrakala Menon (Mrs.) v-:
I(     Vipin Menon (Capt), (1993) 2 SCC 6).
                                                                            '
             42. When the court is confronted with conflicting demands E
       made by the parents, each time it has to justify the demands.
       The Court has not only to look at the issue on legalistic basis,
       in such matters human angles are relevant fa,r deciding those
       issues. The court· then does not give emphasis on what the
       parties say, it has to exercise a jurisdiction which is aimed at· F'
       the welfare of the minor. As observed· recently in Mousami
~ ~.

       Moitra Ganguli's case (supra), the Court has to give due
       weightage to the child's ordinary contentment, health, education,
       intellectual development and favourable surroundings but over
       and above physical comforts, the moral and ethical values have G'
       also to be noted. lhey are equal if not more important than the
                                                '
       others.
Ir.,
           · 43. The word 'welfare' used in Section 13 of the Act has
       to be construed literally and must be taken in its widest sense.
       The moral and ethical welfare o1 the child must also weigh with     H'
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A   the Court as well as its ·physical well being. Thougti the
    provisions· of the special statutes Which govern the rights of the
    parents ·or guardians may be taken into consideration, there is
    nothing :which can stand in the way of the Court exercising its
    parens patriae jurisdiction a'risitig in such cases.
                ;          ~   '               t •

B
        '44. The trump card in appellants' argument is that the child
  is living since long with the fathe~: The argument is attractive.
  Bu~ the same overlooks a very significant _factor .. By flouting
  various orders, leading even to initiatio.o of contempt
C proceedings, the appellant has managed to keep custody of
  the child. He can not be a beneficiary of his own wrongs. The
  High ·court has referred to these aspects in detail in the
  impugned judgments.

       45. The conclusions arrived at and reasons indicated by
D the High Court to grant custody to the mother does not in our
  view suffer from any infirmity. It is true that taking the child out
  of the father's custody may cause some problems, but that is
  bound to be neutralized.                                               )

E       46. Learned counsel for the appellant submitted that the
  child's education is of paramount importance and the father is
  spending good amount of money for providing him excellent
  education, and the mother does not have the financial affluence
  as the appellant claims to have. But that can be taken care of
F if father is asked to pay the educational expenses of the child
  in addition to the maintenance being paid to the respondent.
  But at the same time it cannot be overlooked that the father
  needs to have visitation rights of the child.

       47. In partial modification of the order passed by the
G District Judge and the High Court, we direct that the visitation
  rights shall be in the following terms:

          (1)       During long holidays/vacations covering more than
                    two weeks the child will be allowed to be in the
                    company of the father for a period of seven days.
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                          GAURAV NAGPAL v. SUMEDHA NAGPAL                     421
                              . [DR ARIJIT PASAYAT, J.]
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                    (2)     The period shall be fixed by the father after due        A
 . t   -f                   intimation to the mother who shall permit the child
                            to go with the father for the aforesaid. period.

                    (3)     For twice every month preferably on Saturday or
                            Sunday or a festival day, mother shall allow the child   B
                            to visit the father from morning to evening. Father
                            shall take the child and leave him back at the
._
 ;- _,.,"t                  mother's place on such days.
 \


                 48. The appeal is dismissed subject to aforesaid
              modifications. Costs fixed at Rs.25,000/-.                             c
              CRIMINAL APPEAL NO. 491 OF 2006

                   49. Though we find that the order of the High Court does
              not suffer from any infirmity but taking into account the fact that
                                                                                     D
              we have dismissed the connected Civil appeal relating to the
              custody of the child, while upholding the finding of guilt for
              disobeying the Court's order and committing contempt of Court,
 t     -x     we restrict the sentence to the period already undergone.

                     50. Before saying omega, we propose to make some                E
              general observations. It is a disturbing phenomenon that large
               number of cases are flooding the courts relating to divorce or
              judicial separation. An apprehension is gaining ground that the
               provisions relating to divorce in the Hindu Marriage Act, 1950
               (in short the 'Marriage Act') has led to such a situation. In other   F
       -~.    words, the feeling is that the statute is facilitating breaking of
               homes rather than saving them. This may be too wide a view
               because actions are suspect. But that does not make the
              section invalid. Actions may be bad, but not the Section. The
              provisions relating to divorce categorise situations in which a        G'
              decree for divorce can be sought for. Merely because such a
              course is available to be adopted, should not normally provide
        _A~
              incentive to persons to seek divorce, unless the marriage has
              irretrievably broken. Effort should be to bring about conciliation
              to bridge the communication gap which lead to such
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A   un.desirable proceedings. People rushing to courts for breaking
    up of marriage should come as a last resort, and unless it has
    an inevitable result,' courts should try to bring about conciliation.
    The emphasis shoul~ be on saving marriage and not breaking                        .,
    it. As not3d above, this isimore important in cases where the                     ''
s   children bear th'e brunt of diss.olution of marriage.

         50. One must not lose faith in humanity. It.is an ocean; if a
   few drops of the ocean are dirty, the ocean does not become
   dirty. If nothing ever went wrong in one's life, he or she would
C never have a chance to grow stronger. One should never forget
   that today well lived makes· every yesterday a' dream of
   happiness and tomorrow a vision of hope. Marital happiness
   depends upon mutual trust, respect and understanding. A home                       I-

   should not be an arena for ego clashes and misunderstandings.                      \
   There should be physical ahd mental union. Marriage is                             t-
D. something, Ibsen said in "The league of Youth" yoy have to give
   your whole mind to. If marriages are made in Heaven as
   Tennyson said in Ayloner's Field, why make matrimonial home
   hell is a big question:                                                    y...-   1--

E       51. The appeals are dismissed subject to the aforesaid
    modifications.
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